Senior is most accurate when she writes:

Children may provide unrivaled moments of joy. But they also provide unrivaled moments of frustration, tedium, anxiety, heartbreak.

Senior’s article will not come as any great surprise to most parents.  However, it has been given a provocative title (like this post) to make the issue appear black and white.  Obviously this over-simplifies the matter but there is nothing like stirring up a bit of outrage because it is definitely taboo to admit that you don’t love every moment of parenthood.

When you have children it can take time to adjust to their needs and you are bound to have moments when you are driven half-crazy by your kids, but this doesn’t stop you loving them any less.  It certainly doesn’t mean you hate parenting.  It is more likely to mean that you enjoy and need a well-earned break from time to time.

Let’s face it, if we all hated parenting no one would ever have more than one child and this is definitely not the case! So, if there are any cons, they are definitely outweighed by the pros.

Piers (my brother) is a teacher and I never really understood why he used to go off the radar during term-time.   Now I know better!  Teachers are generally perceived as having an “easy life” because they have apparently short hours and long holidays.  However, this could not be further from the truth.  All the teachers I know work tirelessly behind the scenes, coming in early and staying late to support students, attend meetings, communicate with parents, plan lessons, mark work, receive further training and many other things.  They are  not paid for this extra work  but they generally don’t mind about it because they love what they do and are dedicated to their jobs.  Although teachers have long holidays, often these are taken up with planning new and improved lessons for their students or perhaps even going on a residential trip.

Now although teachers work hard, they would not change their careers.  This was illustrated by a funny conversation in the staff room today when I heard that teachers will have no sympathy with anyone who tells them how hard  work but will immediately feel for anyone who tells them that there job is boring.  With teaching, although it is hard work there is never a dull moment.   It is such a varied job and you rarely have a chance to sit still!

The school I have been at is widely regarded as challenging, yet the teachers really accomplish amazing things with the pupils and are able to reach even the most reluctant students.  I have seen some inspiring teachers at work and to do what they do day-in, day-out, year after year requires someone with pretty remarkable qualities.

So, I would like to take my hat off to teachers everywhere for the wonderful job they do.  Thank you and keep up the good work!

Things have been very quiet because first the main site broke and then I managed to break the blog when I tried to fix the site myself (oops). Anyway, it has become painfully obvious that I don’t have the technical skills to fix the main site so I have decided it is time to bring in an expert. Hopefully everything will be back to normal in the near future.

It is great to be able to post again after just over a year of being absent … so watch this place as I will now be posting more regularly.

However, if you are looking for something to do with the kids in London then why not check out the Kids London Guide.

Nevertheless, the blog will continue …

We are working with them to sort it out as soon as possible!

So, what’s in store for 2009? Well, there is a plan underway and as soon as the groundwork has been set I will let you know a bit more. There is no point ruining the surprise

Happy holiday!

Mother of three, Georgiana Walsh, has recently written a book to tackle this subject called How to Find Childcare You Will Love

Individual chapters are dedicated to each type of childcare with simple tables and guides to make deciding what is right for a family as easy as possible. Inside you will find:
- Examples of questions to ask each type of childcare to help find the right one for your family.
- Advice for parents who have children with special needs.
- Tips for settling a child in with their childcare and for working well with them to ensure a lasting and happy childcare solution.
- Safety and developmental advice to help parents and childcarers work at making sure your child is safe, happy and thriving.
- A guide to changing needs to help parents make the right childcare decisions over the years.
- A chapter to help parents look at your own needs and feelings, towards both parenting and childcare; a family is not happy unless everyone within it is.

I am pleased to be able to offer readers a 25% discount on a copy of the book (or any NannySuccess.com product) – just enter the code NB2 at NannySuccess.com checkout

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Zoomaround
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